Ourdream AI vs Spicychat AI: Which One Should You Use In 2025?

Ourdream AI vs Spicychat AI

I've spent a full week with both Ourdream AI and Spicychat AI to see which one truly deserves your attention and subscription. Both platforms make big promises, but they take surprisingly different approaches.

After hundreds of messages exchanged with each AI girl, I've put together clear differences in both platforms.

In this head-to-head comparison, I'll break down exactly how these AI girlfriends stack up across all the features that actually matter.

Whether you're looking for emotional support, entertaining conversation, or a judgment-free space to be yourself, this in-depth comparison will help you choose the right AI girlfriend for your specific needs.

Ourdream AI

A virtual girlfriend platform that allows users to create AI partners with advanced customizable traits, generate media, and engage in fantasy scenarios.

Spicychat AI

SpicyChat is a chatbot platform that allows users to engage in personalized roleplaying through AI characters for adult conversations.

Character Diversity

Ourdream AI

The selection is extensive and continues to grow daily, as users create new characters.

The library includes both realistic and anime-style options, giving you plenty of variety to match your preferences.

Most characters are young adults in their 20s and 30s, though you'll find some outside this range too.

The app offers three character types: female, male, and trans. You can search using physical descriptions like "blonde" or "Asian," but there's no way to filter by personality traits.

Spicychat AI

The app offers over 60,000 characters to choose from. I spent a couple of days testing their library, and here's what you need to know.

The selection breaks down into three main categories: anime, realistic, and fantasy characters, with clear tags that tell you exactly what to expect - romantic, sci-fi, dominant, or wholesome.

The platform feels organized, and searching for specific character types is straightforward, though having a dedicated personality filter would make it even better.

Want something specific? Filter by gender, personality type, or content rating (NSFW included).

Customization

Ourdream AI

The appearance editor is solid:

• Choose between anime and realistic style
• Various ethnicities (including fantasy options)
• Age
• Adjust physical features

You can modify body type, wild ranga of hairstyles, eye colors, and voice options (10 in total) round out the fundamental customization toolkit.

Where things get interesting is in the advanced settings. You can add specific details like tattoos and piercings, but more importantly, you can shape your AI's personality.

While you're limited to single preset personalities (sweet, shy, playful, or sassy) without mixing traits, you can add some flavor by customizing their occupation and relationship role.

After you’re done, the app gives you a quick summary of your choices before locking them in.

Spicychat AI

You can't design your girlfriend's physical appearance through traditional customization options. Instead, you get two choices: upload a photo or describe how they should look through text. That's it. No sliders, no presets, no detailed tweaking.

SpicyChat's physical customization is minimalist, but personal customization is where the focus is. You'll write free-text descriptions of your companion's traits and craft their greeting message.

There's also a tagging system to categorize your character, helping others understand what they're about.

Chat Experience

Ourdream AI

Here’s the truth about the girlfriend's personality: she’s warm and engaging, but since this is an adult site, she moves into NSFW territory faster than you might expect.

The chat system gives you three main controls: lust level, response length, and memory pinning.

I tested different lust settings and found that even the middle range already feels quite flirty and suggestive.

The color-coded responses make conversations easy to follow, no squinting required.

When it comes to emotional support, she offers practical advice while staying true to her role.

During relationship talks, she maintains believable intimacy.

Spicychat AI

If you're looking for romantic interaction, you'll find the flirting natural and the emotional responses thoughtful.

It responds with relevant comments when you share concerns or seek emotional support.

Different colors of the chat separate narrative text from character responses, making conversations easy to follow.

There's also a response suggestions feature when you're stuck. Does it help? Yes, especially for users new to AI chat apps.

NSFW Chat Experience

Ourdream AI

My girlfriend took on a tantra teacher persona during our chats and builds conversations slowly. It remembers its role and sticks to it.

When discussing intimate preferences, it stays tasteful - think subtle hints rather than crude responses.

In another chat, my girlfriend took on the role of a charming teacher. She stayed fully in character, guiding the conversation with patience and depth.

At times, her approach is quite effective, creating more authentic-feeling interactions. Other times, you might find the pacing too slow.

Spicychat AI

During my tests, my girlfriend showed she could discuss fantasy topics naturally. No awkward robot responses or sudden character breaks.

Role-play scenarios were hit-or-miss. Some attempts led to engaging exchanges, others stayed surprisingly tame.

Being clear about what you want usually works better than subtle hints or vague suggestions.

Image Generation

Ourdream AI

The app can create high-quality, near-photorealistic images right in chat, auto-generated to match your conversation, with no manual setup.

While not perfect (I noticed occasional quirks like elf ears), the character stays consistent.

While not perfect (I noticed occasional quirks like elf ears), the character stays consistent.

There is also a custom image generation tool that lets you pick specific characters, poses, outfits, and backgrounds.

Spicychat AI

You get unlimited image generation with a "True Supporter" membership. The pictures look decent but are nothing that will make you go "wow," but they serve their purpose of giving your girlfriend a face.

Here's the catch: You can't design your character's look before generating images. You're stuck with tweaking whatever the AI gives you afterward.

You can only make changes after the photo is generated, and trust me - trying to change things often creates weird results.

There's also an NSFW filter, which changes what kind of images you'll get.

Video Generation

Ourdream AI

First, the good stuff: videos look crisp and professional, but you'll catch a few classic AI slip-ups.

Best part? It costs less than most competitors while delivering similar quality.

Spicychat AI

The app doesn't generate videos of your AI girl - period. You'll need to look at different options.

Voice Generation

Ourdream AI

It works for basic chat, but don't expect those spine-tingling moments when your AI girlfriend sounds genuinely excited to talk to you.

When I tried flirting with the AI, the voice stayed flat and emotionless.

Spicychat AI

My girlfriend managed basic speech but couldn't nail those emotional moments.

Just flat, mechanical responses that remind you you're talking to a computer, and this feature is locked behind SpicyChat's most expensive subscription tier.

Privacy

Ourdream AI

The app collects all your chat messages, but its privacy policy doesn’t mention whether any of it is encrypted, and your data gets shared with third parties.

When you check your bank statement, you'll see "Dream Studio" - nice and discreet.

Spicychat AI

Your messages are encrypted during transmission and storage. But that's where the complete privacy guarantee ends.

They share this data with business partners and can't guarantee full confidentiality. You can ask them to delete your data, but remember, what's shared is already shared.

You'll see "NextDay AI Incorporated" when you check your bank statement.